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Author: Joseph Matthews

You Are Not Special

by: Joseph Matthews

I want to share with you a few emails I've gotten from fans of my site which I find to be quite troubling...
Hi Joseph,
When I would learn these openers and what to say the women instantly could smell that it is NOT ME who had originally these ideas. It wouldn't be myself who created these lines. They would reject me faster as I could imagine. So how should this whole thing work ???
Honestly Joe, if I would try one of these openers they would instantly laugh and reject me because they could smell that I learned these sentences.
This type of e-mail is not an isolated instance. I get many e-mails from guys saying things like:
"I like your tactics, but they won't work for me."
"If I tried something like this, I'd get laughed at and rejected."
"If I actually approached a woman with this material, I'd spontaneously combust, scanners-style."
Well, you get the idea...
When I e-mail these guys back asking if they've actually *bothered* to go out and try my techniques, the answers are usually always:
"No. I just KNOW it won't work."
Well, for those of you out there who think this way, I have a secret I want to share with you...
Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their case is unique and different from every other guy out there.
Well, I'm here to tell you you're wrong.
I've learned through experience that most guys are not very different from each other, just as most girls aren't very different from each other. In fact, a friend of mine summed it up best when he said:
"All women are different. But not THAT different."
The same goes for us dudes.
We all have the same fears and insecurities. We just deal with them differently. Most guys deal by shutting down and not even trying to improve.
Rather, they take the easy way out and just blame the world, other women, their circumstances, etc.
They even blame themselves, yet they prefer to beat themselves up rather than take responsibility to IMPROVE their circumstance.
There's a name for that type of guy, and it's:
But the thing is, they don't have to stay that way. All it requires is a little hard work and effort on their part to CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOR THE BETTER!
In my book, The Art Of Approaching, I give you SPECIFIC tactics on how to take the bull by the horns and improve your social life.
No one says it's gonna be easy. You gotta do the work. You got to get off your butt and do what it takes to get what you want! It can be difficult, but very rewarding.
If you feel you need a little help to get you started, you can find out more information here:
It's time to change your life for the better, don't you think?
Wishing you success with women,
Joseph Matthews

About The Author

Joseph Matthews and has just released his comprehensive guide on how to overcome fear of rejection and meet and date tons of beautiful women. You can check out his website here -- http://www.artofapproaching.com
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This article was posted on September 02, 2005

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